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How To Be Happy And Successful

I think pretty much everyone wants to be happy and successful.  Do you know people who are happy and successful?  Have you ever wondered how they got there?

Happiness and success don’t necessarily come easy.  People who are happy and successful tend to have a few key habits in common.  Let’s look at what some of those habits are.

They don’t dwell on the past.

Everyone has a story and some people have had major struggles in their lives.  Happy and successful people have found a way to let the past go and focus on the future.  Until you can let go of your past you won’t be able to find your future.

They focus on what they believe.

Happy and successful people stay true to what they believe.  They take action on what is true to them not what they think will please others.  Stop trying to please others so you can work on pleasing yourself.

They are open minded.

They know when things aren’t working and are open to trying new things in order to make them work.  If you’re feeling stuck open your mind to the potential in the opportunities that come your way.

They finish what they started.

They know that there’s no point in starting something if they don’t finish it.  Every time you start something and don’t finish it it has an effect on your psyche.  Deep down you start to believe that you can’t accomplish anything because you never have.  When you start something new commit to finishing no matter how tough things get.

They trust themselves.

Happy and successful stick to their guns.  They don’t let uncertainty get in their way.  Being uncertain is a key component of failure.

They’re open to constructive criticism.

They know that they’re not perfect and they always want to learn.  For them constructive criticism helps them to be better at what they do because it gives them a different perspective.  When you receive constructive criticism learn from it and make the necessary changes.

They take risks.

People who are happy and successful don’t let fear keep them stuck.  They know that in order to move forward they need to face their fear and figure out how to conquer it.  When you conquer your fears your life changes.

They give back.

Most people have a need to help others.  When you’re able to help others change their lives your level of happiness rises to amazing heights.

They question convention.

These people know that just because things are done a certain way, it doesn’t mean it’s the best way.  If things aren’t working out for you by doing it the conventional way it’s time to look at alternative means.

They learn from others.

Happy and successful people know that they don’t know everything and that listening and learning from others is a key factor of personal growth.  When you find your mentor and really study them you’ll have guidelines to help you get to where you want to be.

They look after their health.

They know the power of good nutrition and physical activity.  If you’re not taking care of your health your mind and body will be out of balance.  True happiness is not possible when your mind and body are out of balance.

Be Happy And Successful!

You have within you the power to be happy and successful.  The key is to decide what you want to happen in your life and go after it.  Don’t just simply let life happen to you.